đ¤What if you're not behind in life?đ
For anyone whose ever looked around and felt discouraged seeing everyone adulting in life this one is for you ....
Hola Amigis đ
Weâre back on a roll, and this weekâs pondering is simple but hopefully get you thinking bigger:
What if youâre not behind, but exactly where you need to be?
I knowâsounds optimistic, right? But letâs be real: the feeling of âbeing behindâ is universal. That creeping sense that *everyone else* is hitting life milestones while you're⌠floating, floundering, or forging your own weird, beautiful, unconventional path.
But hereâs the truth: you are creating your own path
And that takes time, intention, and so much courage.
đą Your Timeline Isnât Broken
Maybe youâre the one breaking generational cycles, redefining what stability means, or choosing healing over hustle.
Maybe youâve chosen a career over kids for now or forever.
Maybe youâve gone full nomad (hi, letâs be friends) instead of planting roots in a house with a picket fence.
Or maybe you have followed the expected timeline⌠but it doesnât feel aligned.
Thatâs valid, too.
The point is: different doesnât mean wrong.
đ§ Shifting Out of âWTF Am I Doing?
This episode is for anyone whoâs felt the existential
âWhat the fuck am I doing?â moment.
If you've been spiraling in comparison watching people get engaged, buy homes, build families or six-figure careers while you're just trying to figure out what to eat for dinner⌠this is for you.
Weâre moving from:
Woe is me âĄď¸ Bold Next Steps Forward
Weâre talking:
- Perspective shifts that actually help
- How to embrace your timeline not the one Instagram and society feeds you
- Stepping into that â¨delulu energy⨠but grounded with purpose
- Asking yourself: What do I truly want vs. what Iâve been taught to want?
So tune in on youtube and anywhere you listen to podcasts!
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Until Next Week,
Joy Valerie Carrera


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